I’m a huge advocate of “you” time. It’s very important for you to just take time to yourself and shut everything off for a bit. Weather you schedule a stay-cation from work or book a trip, it’s super important to turn it all off. Every since I became a mom, I was always told I wouldn’t be able to take care of Christina unless I took care of myself first. Boy, is that the truth. I never realized how important it was. How can you take care of a tiny human when you have all these thoughts going around in your mind like a twister? We do it on a daily basis but sometimes you need to empty that noggin.
Most of the time, my me time is a long drive down to the beach or no destination with a LOT of music. Sometimes, my me time is spending time with family. No matter what my me time is, there always needs to be music. Find that things that helps you shut your brain off and keep it as your “go-to.” Change it up sometimes, but always keep that one thing in mind.
Over the past weekend, I got to enjoy a beautiful weekend in Orlando, Florida, with my mom and her best friend, Dawn. My mom took me for my golden birthday. I turned 26 on October 26th. How awesome is that?
For years and years and years, I did not have the best relationship with my mother. I was always the type to push away those closest to me and block them out of my life. I did this to my own mother. Over the past 2 years or so, things really started to change. I became more mature and really started appreciating everything in my life. Over the past year, I’ve really started to build a relationship with my mom. Of course, there are bumps in the road, but we are able to work through them like adults.
I had not been on vacation with my mom in years and we have never been on vacation just the two of us. Being so close with her made the vacation so much better.
Strutting out of work Thursday, I felt free. Mommy worked late and I went out for some drinks with a friend. Friday morning, I jumped out of bed so excited for our weekend. I couldn’t think about being tired, we had a plane to catch!! We got to the airport with plenty of time to spare, so we sat down at one of the restaurants and had some breakfast. I wasn’t able to fully relax yet, since it was only the second time I was leaving the state without Christina. Once we got on the plane, I felt even better than I did Thursday night leaving work. For some reason, when I’m home (In New York) I constantly have the infamous anxiety stomach ache. It does not go away. Even if I’m not anxious on the surface, the stomach ache is always there. The first step on that plane, all of my worries went away.
Later on that night, we met up with my moms best friend, since high school, Dawn. We had some dinner and drinks and then went down to Disney Springs and walked around. I felt like I was in another world. It was the first time in I don’t know how long that I was relaxed. Like fully relaxed. We got back to the hotel pretty early because we had a long day and the next day would be even longer.
The next day, we went to Universal Studios and Island of Adventure. WHAT A DAY! We walked around the park the whole day; going on rides, taking pictures, laughing and just having a great time. We laughed so much we (literally) peed our pants, TWICE! We had butter-beer and regular beer. Sausages and ribs. More beer and water. And then some more beer.
Sunday was a chill day, since it was our last full day. We went to brunch at a really cool, hipster brunch spot/bar. They played my type of music and the view of the lake was beautiful. This place had awesome vibes. I could almost picture myself living there and rolling out of bed on a Sunday morning and taking Christina for breakfast and a walk around the lake. There were dogs everywhere and just a slight breeze on the lake. I almost didn’t want to leave.
Next stop. WINERY! This was our first time at a winery, so we took it all in. All of the wine, I mean. Everything was amazing. We went on a tour of the winery and did a wine tasting of all the wines they make in that particular spot.
Once we got back to the hotel, it was time to say goodbye to Dawn. It was hard to say goodbye, because it meant back to reality for all of us and that we wouldn’t be seeing each other for a while. Mommy and I just hung out at the hotel once Dawn left. We did a jelly bean challenge with the Harry Potter jell beans from the park. Super silly and so much fun**Don’t ever eat the earthworm or rotten egg flavor**
The next morning, we got ready and headed to the airport to come back home. The flights were great, quick and painless (I’m not a fan of flying) I was so ready to be back with my baby girl. The look on her face, brought tears to my eyes. “MOMMYYYYY!!” It was so nice to hear her voice and see her face.
When we take our well deserved us time. You time. Family time. Whatever time you need to take to reset yourself, we are able to come back to a clean slate and a fresh start to conquer and rise higher than we did before. Take care of yourself. Mentally, physically and emotionally.
I learned a lot in one weekend. I learned a lot about myself and I learned a lot about life. I can’t wait to share it with all of you.
To be continued….♥♥♥